WHY HAST THOU FORSAKEN ME?!

I am slightly ignorant to true impact of updates, coming from a mainly Windows background I generally accept all updates as they come trusting that they have been well tested and will have relatively little impact on my system.
Since migrating to Ubuntu (and the Linux distros I attempted to use before settling on Ubuntu) I have been wracked with wireless problems. When choosing what distro to install on my IBM x40 I tested several of the major distros all with days spend on just attempting to force my wireless card to work properly. Since I settled on Ubuntu my wireless networking experience has been relatively smooth. However, looming on the horizon are those updates which ends up somehow trashing my wireless drivers.
How do I fix these problems? Reinstallation. Never a fun prospect no matter how easy it's made with the advent of flash drives, online backups, and CD burning. If you want to see me cry, and don't want to draw blood, kill my wireless.
At the last meeting Trent talked about locking updates for our BronOs, and I think that's a great idea, certainly for me and my desire to update myself yo oblivion. I do wonder about everyone else's wireless experiences with Ubuntu or other distros, was it problematic, smooth, etc?